2 years back in April 2014, India’s largest community center for victimized and distressed men, Confidare, started it’s office in Delhi while it was already operational at Bangalore.
Starting Confidare at Delhi had its own challenges but the incubating team formed by Jyoti Tiwari, Nishant Sharma and Rohit Girdhar overcame all of them effortlessly and now with one more person on-board Bhuvnesh Sharma the journey is all the more exciting.
Here’s a conversation between the foursome sharing their experience and thoughts on the journey hitherto and the vision ahead.
Three cheers to Confidare Delhi team
Time and again, we are reminded that this society is male dominated and patriarchal in nature. What does it mean?
It means that men live in a have-it-all world. They have all the rights and privileges and they control all the power in the world. And this is how it is justified or evidence of its presence is presented:
- Men don’t have to leave their homes after getting married.
- They don’t need to adjust with another family.
- They get inheritance in ancestral property.
- Their child gets their name.
- Their name doesn’t need to change after marriage.
While all this might be true, the following is also true.
- Men need to become financially stable before getting married.
- They need to continue to remain so lifelong, which means they cannot stop working and sit at home.
- They cannot pursue their interests as it may not generate enough income for the survival of the whole family.
- Even if their wife works, they should not expect her to share the financial load, if she does it by her own choice, well and good.
- The risk of bringing a new person into their life and family wrests entirely with the man and one wrong decision can ruin his life.
Feminism has got nothing to do with “Women’s Rights” and they do not even care what happens to women. For them, attacking men and vilifying them, spreading hatred and venom against them is the top most priority work.
Recently, Union Minister for Women and Child Development, Mrs. Maneka Gandhi opened a conversation on twitter saying that for the next 2 hours she would take questions. Below are some of the screenshots of the replies she gave. Continue reading
If you are not talking about “Gender Equality”, you are orthodox, insensitive, chauvinistic, misogynistic, opinionated, and many other despicable terms.
If you are talking about “Gender Equality”, you are modern, sensitive, open-minded, caring for women and many other fashionable terms.
This is the map of the modern society. This is how modern society, also known as civilized society, creates stereotypes. And since a lot is being talked about gender equality, let’s dive deep into understanding the term – what it means and what it stands for.
As far as the meaning of the term “Gender “Equality” is concerned, it’s pretty straightforward and self-explanatory – Equality of the two genders – male and female.