CRISP supports hapless father

     9845264488 www.crisp-india.org 9845264488

                            (CHILD RIGHTS INITIATIVE FOR SHARED PARENTING)

                              No.3, Natasha Penta, Infantry Road Cross, Bangalore 560001

                               Ph: 25593848, Mob: 9845264488 , Fax: 41238847

I  About Crisp:

Child Rights Initiative for shared parenting (CRISP) is NGO based from Bangalore with 1000 members active throughout the country & abroad .Our NGO is the first of its sort dealing in problems relating to children when their parents are divorced and in disputes of custodial and non custodial parents. Crisp believes in the concept of shared parenting wherein the child should have access to both its natural parents the father and the mother in the best interest of the child when both the parents are otherwise not disqualified. We are proud to tell that National Commission for protection of child rights (NCPR) a Govt of India undertaking recently has appreciated our initiative on child welfare & significance of love and care of both the parents in a child’s life. (Enclosed Copy) Our aims and objectives are based on research findings worldwide which indicate that children do best when both the parents are actively involved in the child’s life to avoid parental alienation syndrome which is the worst form of CHILD ABUSE.

II   Major Children Issues:

In our society unfortunately 2 out of 5 marriages are ending up in divorce This is  more rampant in the  metros and amongst the  educated classes of the society especially the upper middle class and affluent class. Crisp is receiving various complaints in this regard of parental alienation including that of NRI’s pertaining to parent child abduction.  We are presenting to our media friends a typical case of an unfortunate father Dr. Ravichandran a world renowned scientist who is deprived of care and custody of his son Master Aditya aged about 6 years, more than 500 days. Please also refer www.rescueaditya.org for further details. The father doesn’t even know the whereabouts and the welfare of the child and obviously this great scientist and wonderful father is in a lot of distress due to the uncertainty of the well being of his loving child and our society is duty bound to help him.

III   Brief Background of Dr.Ravichandran.

Dr. Ravichandran is  a graduate of the college of Pharmacy University of Florida with PhD & M.S in pharmaceutical sciences. He has received numerous world wide patents (issued and applied)  for several drugs and related products.Liquid formulations of metformin, US patents 6890957, 6559187 , Novel compounds with High Therapeutic Index, US & worldwide patents pending in USA, CANADA etc.,and various others, to name a few. He is also the recipient of 2004 distinguished Alumnus Award from the University of Florida in May 2004 for his lifetime achievement in Pharmaceutical Sciences.  He has also performed as a consultant to Medical staff at Harvard Medical School in Cambridge just to name a few of his achievements. He has done various supports for different community services round the world for the physically and mentally handicapped in USA and India & also set up an endowment fund to promote research and student scholarship.

IV   Brief History of the Case: 

  1. Vijayasree Voora had meticulously planned for illegal kidnapping of Aditya.
  2. She moved Aditya from place to place to avoid tracing. Past 18 months she subjected to Aditya to live in seedy hotels which she changed often.
  3. She did not admit him to any school for a period of more than 18 months preventing him having social contacts, schooling, or any stability in his life. All Aditya knows is cruelty from his mother.
  4. She had deprived Aditya of love and attention from his father, and also from all members of family from either side.
  5. Aditya may be treated to mediocre schooling or no schooling, despicable apartment life, nomadic existence, and being moved all over INDIA with his fugitive mother.
  6. Vijayasree Voora, with her reckless behavior due to severe mental illness  is endangering the welfare of a child, with contempt of court orders, continues to abuse Aditya by holding him hostage.

 

V   Brief Background of Aditya.

 

Date of Birth: July 1, 2002;

Age: 6;

Hair: Black;

Eyes: Brown;

Place of Birth: Schenectady, New York, USA;

Height: 3’8”;

Weight: 40 Lbs;

Race: Indian.

Remarks: Ht and Wt are at the time of his disappearance. Aditya Chandran has birth marks in his back and legs (mild green colorations). He may also be called Adi, Aditya, Aditya V, Aditya Voora etc. (Photo enclosed of Dr, Ravichandran and his son Aditya.)

Remarks: Ht and Wt are at the time of his disappearance. Aditya Chandran has birth marks in his back and legs (mild green colorations). He may also be called Adi, Aditya, Aditya V, Aditya Voora etc. (Photo enclosed of Dr, Ravichandran and his son Aditya.)

 

VI   Various Court orders:

 

1. On September 14, 2007, father was given sole legal and physical custody of Aditya Chandran by the New York court.

 

2. On November 15, 2007 the Madras High Court dismissed Vijayasree Voora’s petition for sole    legal and physical custody of Aditya.

3. A federal arrest warrant charging Vijayasree Voora with international kidnapping is pending from the US Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI). Order to Chennai police to secure Vijayasree Voora was issued by Madras High Court on Dec 20, 2007.

4. Non-bail able criminal child abuse arrest warrant for Vijayasree Voora was issued by the New York Supreme Court on Jan 7, 2008.

5. The US dept of Homeland Security updated its computers on Feb 7, 2008 to arrest Vijayasree      Voora upon reentry to USA. Special order by the Supreme Court of India to Chandigarh and U.P. Police to rescue Aditya from abuse was issued on April 28, 2008. Till to date Vijayasree continues her fugitive lifestyle unabated and undisturbed by any and all court decrees from multiple jurisdictions of the world.

VII      Psychology Report on mental status of Vijayasree Voora:

Vijayasree Voora suffers from Munchausen’s by Proxy .Court appointed psychologist had declared VijayasreeVoora suffers from severe mental disorders. Full details of the report may be viewed on www.rescueaditya.org./files/psycologist_report .pdf

VIII     Dr.Ravichandran’s appeal to Ms.Vijayasree Voora:

Dear Viji:                                                                                                                  

How are you doing? How is Aditya? Hope both are well. We both must stop what we are doing for the sake of Aditya. I will stop all legal and public proceedings against you. I request that you stop running from place to place so I can see Aditya. This is an earnest appeal to you. Consider the life of Aditya without both parents. Not a good prospect. As mature adults we should stop any of our problems interfere with Aditya’s future.  I will do whatever is needed to make sure you and I have full access to Aditya and raise him child we could be proud of.

Viji, please let me know your terms of resettlement if any through your local advocate and let purely human in nature and without any prejudice.

So please call me 0 97043 62000 ASAP. – Ravi or call CRISP through your advocate or wellwishers. CRISP Number is 09845264488.

IX   Letter from Father to the Son.Aditya

My Dear Aditya:

How are you doing? I missed you very much on your birthday. Now it is more than a year that I didn’t see you.

Chinna Kanna, are you going to school? I have been trying to locate you and mommy but not successful. It is very difficult as you are being moved around very much.

Kannu kutti, do not worry. I will find you soon, and everything will be alright. Do the best you can till then. Just hang in there dear.

Last time I saw you, you were little thin. But now people are telling me you are thinner and taller. I heard that you are behaving more like a 9-10 year old boy and not as 5-6 year old. Do you know who told me? Those nice hotel staff you talked to at various hotels you stayed in the last few months. You seem to be more mature for your age.

Well, let us make sure you need not grow up as fast as you are being forced to age like this and not enjoy your childhood. May be you don’t understand what Appa is saying. It’s OK. Just give me a call at 0 97015 30007. I will come to pick you up, and life will be alright.

Cheers – Appa.

X  Request to Indian media to support the cause in saving his child from the unfortunate condition of not having access with father and not being sent to school.

Crisp appeals to the media friends to circulate the news throughout the country in order to rescue Aditya and restore normalcy in his life & also we appeal to Mrs.Vijayasree Voora to contact us for a peaceful settlement in the best interest of the child and withdraw all cases and complaints.

Dr.Ravichandran                                                                                 Kumar V Jahgirdar.

 (Father & Natural Guardian of Aditya)                                                              President CRISP.

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3 thoughts on “CRISP supports hapless father

  1. Thank you for this article.
    Before we just go soft and compassionate for the mother, do we even realize and see that this is actually a revenge by a mother using the child as a weapon.
    What actually happened between the two I don’t know, but do you really think that the child doesn’t need a father?
    It opens our eyes to the cruel mothers we have in today’s society that hold children without permission of the father, even though things are not working between parents, the child does not have to suffer this inhumane treatement of the child.
    Is NHRC- National Human Rights Commission – looking out to find this child amd give the child joint permission to be with both parents?
    Very sad life for the child due to a cruel mother.

  2. Parental Alienation of Aditya Chandran
    By Dr. V. Ravi Chandran, father of Aditya.
    International parental kidnapping of Aditya and subsequent brainwashing and parental alienation of Aditya is a text book case. This letter is a summary of every technique used by Aditya’s mother to alienate him from his father.
    In June 2007, Albany County Family court in upstate NY allowed Vijayasree Voora, mother of Aditya Chandran (then 5 year old boy) to be taken to India for a short visit, with a stipulation that she should bring Aditya back to the USA by August 3, 2007. However, Vijayasree after reaching India in June 28, 2007, disappeared along with Aditya, and became completely untraceable.
    I had to leave my job and everything in the USA to go to India since September 2007, and filed a Habeas Corpus petition in the Supreme Court of India. The Supreme Court of India ordered various police departments in 5 different states to trace my ex-wife and son. It is very difficult time for me emotionally. When the 5 different state police failed to trace my son in India, the Supreme Court of India ordered CBI (Central Bureau of Investigations, India’s equivalent of FBI) to trace my son in August 2009. In October 2009, my son and my ex-wife were traced by the CBI in a seedy motel in Chennai. On November 19, 2009, Supreme Court of India made a landmark decision, asking the mother to take the child back to USA. However, my ex-wife failed to do so, and escaped from CBI custody with my son.
    The court again ordered CBI to trace my son, and on May 1st, my son Aditya Chandran now 8 years old was traced in another seedy motel in Chennai, South India, and on the same day he was handed over to me.
    Aditya was a five year old young cheerful boy with sparkling innocent eyes when he was kidnapped to India in June 2007. After 2 ½ years of captivity and violent abuse by Vijayasree Voora , when I first saw him on May 1st 2010, my heart sunk to note how much the joy was forced out of him. He was thin, malnourished, and had the growth and development of a boy who was 2 years behind. This is what was done to him during those two years of fugitive lifestyle in India under the care of his criminally insane mother. While hard life in the filthy streets of India led to the loss of innocence for Aditya, I am planning to work hard to bring happiness in my beloved son’s life.
    On May 6th 2010, I exited India safely with my son and reached USA. Thank god.
    During the period between June 2007 to October 2009, Vijayasree Voora violently abused Aditya. It is important to note that Vijayasree Voora was and as of now severely mentally ill, and suffers from Munchausen by Proxy syndrome, in which the parent takes unusual pleasure to subjecting their children to numerous hospital and doctor visits, most of which result in severe painful operations and treatments. But even more importantly, it should be noted that she did abuse Aditya because I, his father loved him. This twisted logic was the basis of severe and violent abuse of Aditya for a period of 30 months by Vijayasree Voora.
    Since Vijayaree had Aditya under her control exclusively, she had this fantastic opportunity to alienate him from his father, which was systematic and brutal. She had absolutely no regard for the emotional health of Aditya, and she obtained pure pleasure by violently abusing him by taking him to doctors and hospitals at every opportunity.
    After Aditya was rescued from his mentally ill, criminally insane, and violently abusive mother, I asked him how many times did he visit doctors and hospitals. He said going to doctors was constant affair, and further enumerated that numerous times blood was drawn from his brachial veins for testing purpose. Most egregious physical and mental abuse of Aditya was his visits to dentists forced by his mother. During the period from June 2007 to April 2010, all his teeth were not allowed to fall normally, instead, he was taken to at least 5 dentists and the baby teeth were forced out. I asked, if it did pain, and he said, no, it didn’t pain while the teeth were loose, but yes, it pained very much when the dentists gave injection and then pulled the teeth, and sometimes they rub a local anathetic and pulled off. Either way during and after pulling those baby teeth, Aditya stated that it pained very much. However he was very surprised during the 2nd quarter of 2010 when one of his teeth fell off normally after he came back to USA. Naturally I was not going to take him to a dentist to remove his baby teeth.
    Violent abuse of Aditya included not allowing him to have any social interaction. He was admitted to not less than 30 schools, and he was constantly moved from one location to another all over India. Vijayasree Voora’s mental illness was so severe that she didn’t understand the emotional consequences of her actions on Aditya.
    Since she didn’t have to get permission from Aditya’s father, Vijayasree had a free rein on brutal and unnecessary surgical operations on Aditya. She had systematically subjected Aditya to removal his tonsils, and adenoids and whatever else for flimsy or for wrong reasons. She took incredible pleasure of subjecting Aditya a numerous such operations, which she had refused to inform his father.
    Truly emotional abuse of Aditya took the form of parental alienation. Aditya was never allowed to talk to his father for the entire period of 30 months during the abduction and fugitive life style. Here are some extreme examples of how Vijayasree brain washed Aditya against his father:
    1. Sexual abuse: Day after day Vijayasree told Aditya that he was sexually abused by his father, and it is very important that Aditya should stay close to her. If his father ever finds him, he will be subjected to same. Aditya, after hearing this every day for 30 months, believed that his father abused him sexually.
    I asked Aditya after his rescue, what does he think now about his father. He said, that I changed, and became a “good” person. I told him that I never changed, I have been always a good father to him, and it seems that he is confused how come father has “changed”.

    2. Change of Name: Aditya’s name was changed to Arya and to complete his brain washing, Vijayasree even changed his last name to ‘Rao”.

    3. The brain washing of Aditya was so complete, that in a hearing in Supreme Court of India, Aditya told the 3-judge panel that his father is a bad man. (Fortunately the judges realized that for 3 years he had been brainwashed, and chastised the mother for raising a child to hate his father). In fact Aditya’s statements at the Supreme Court of India just had the opposite reaction than what Vijayasree Voora expected.

    4. Vijayasree Voora had severe malignant motives for her action of parental alienation, which include a) poor boundaries-failure to recognize the distinction between parental thoughts and children’s needs; b) desire for revenge against me (ex-husband); c) extreme narcissism; d) Guilt-attempt to deflect attention from her own failings as mother and wife; e) Insecurity-fearing that Aditya will like his father more than his mother; f)Paranoia – feelings that the other parent is fostering alienation; g) History of poor or absent relationship with at least one parent – Vijayasree Voora was born when her mother was only 13 years old, and she never had any good relationship with her mother.

    5. Alienating environment Vijayasree created for Aditya is another classic text book case. For example, she created conditions condusive for total alienation of Aditya: a) Isolation – Aditya was completely removed from any relative or friends from either side of his family for 30 months; b) Relocation – Aditya was constantly moved from one city or town to another during the 30 month ordeal in India; c) Kidnapping – Aditya case is classical international parental kidnapping, demonstrating that Vijayasree had no regard or respect for any law of any country; d) Stripping – a technique generally employed by cults, where earlier symbolic and emotional connections are completely “stripped”. In case of Aditya “stripping” was so bizarre and treacherous, for example removing all photos of Aditya’s father, changing his name, and completely eliminating any contact with father and that side of the family. Furthermore Aditya was so well trained that he stated that “mom does not like the fact that I am thinking about dad”! e) Fear – Because of extreme way in which Vijayasree vents her anger in an irrational and uncontrolled manner, Aditya wanted to make sure that he is not the target of his mother’s next tantrum. Like isolation, he was becoming more psychologically dependent upon his bad-mouthing mother.

    6. Another factor that was responsible for alienation of Aditya was the corruption of his reality. A) Name game – Vijayasree, similar to cult leaders, understood the power of language. She called her ex-husband, father of Aditya an “evil man” in front of Aditya numerous times over the 30 month period. B) Child Aliases – Furthermore by changing Aditya’s name of Arya, Vijayasree attempted to devalue any relationship Aditya previously had with his father. C) Repetition -This is akin to implanting false memories in children, and Vijayasree successfully implanted numerous false memories in Aditya against his father. D) Selective attention – Aditya was pointed out any of the weak qualities of his father and those are the only qualities Vijayasree talked in front of Aditya. This also included judging father’s behavior out of context. For example, according to Aditya, Vijayasree told him that his father does not love, because, you see, he has not so far come to see you in the past 3 years! – while all along it was Vijayasree who kept Aditya away from everyone, including his father. Of course exaggeration and lies were part of the parental alienation, and Vijayasree fully used them to her advantage. E) Revisionist History – Similar to tactics used by the leaders of soviet Russia, Vijayasree systematically removed all good memories of Aditya about his father, and only implanted bad memories in his head.

    7. Projection: Because of the severe mental illness, projection of her own shortcomings became a potent weapon in the hands of Vijayasree Voora. Since intuitively she knows that she is a criminal, she projected her criminal behavior on other, claiming that others are criminals. In a recent conversation with me, Vijayasree asked, that…”You should not torture Aditya because I love him”. This statement was quite bizarre as it sounds, and made me wonder, if she tortured Aditya because I loved him so much. Then everything fell into place, and one early morning recently I realized why Aditya was immune to both physical and mental pain. He mental and physical torture was so brutal and complete, he was resigned to the fact the “life is like this, fully of pain and suffering, and better resign to this fact”.

    8. No Love for Aditya: After Aditya was transported to USA, I expected Vijayasree to be in contact with him. But such telephone contact, originally frequent during first few days, trickled down to nothing at the present time. It is very clear, Aditya was used as pawn to torture his father. Once he is no longer available, he is of no use to Vijayasree, hence she completely cut him off from her life. This is the cruel story of a reckless mother with no love for her son.
    I am currently working with Aditya to reverse the damages done to my beloved son. Tender loving care is what he needs, and I plan bring much happiness to my son’s life, and bring back his innocence.
    I thank all the Supreme Court Justices for all their help and doing right by Aditya.

    Aditya now enrolled in a excellent school district in Texas USA, and since he is suffering from severe Parental Alienation, he may require prolonged therapy from a child psychologist and tender loving care from his immediately family in the USA.

    Parental Child Abduction is the worst form of Child Abuse and yet society and the legal system (where these cases are allowed toi be dragged out for 6-8 years) allows these psychologically challenged non-Indian resident/foreign citizen mothers to hide behind their lies and evade responsibility for their wrongdoings simply and the orders of foreign courts. What makes it worse is that neither the Indian schools that help the abductor hide the child (and even agree to change the kidnapped child’s surname) nor the abductors (and their helpers, e.g., relatives and friends, lawyers, doctors and other professionals) care that Parental Alienation Syndrome causes long lasting psychological damage to the child (it can damage his/her ability to enter into mature relationships). Consequently, India has become a safe haven for the NRI/PIO perpetuators of Parental Child Abduction. Therefore, there needs to be a strong deterrant and punishment for the abductor (and anybody that aids the abductor) to stop committing such heinous crimes, and India should sign the Hague Convention Treaty on International Private Law such that what was done to your child over the last couple of years does not happen to other innocent children.

    I hope and pray that the same sanity will prevail in other cases of parental child abductions to India and those in charge will take steps to ensure that the psychological well-being of the child and the kidnapped child’s relationship with the other parent is not destroyed.

    Additional Solicitor General Indira Jaising has previously stated that India should sign the Hague Convention on International Child Abduction and she also knows that there are several such cases pending in the Indian Courts which involve foreign citizen women of Indian origin where the abductors have jumped jurisdiction and are misusing the laws in India. Hopefully the Government of India will pass this bill, so that kidnapped children will be speedily returned back to their native countries.
    God bless Aditya.

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