11.26.08
SIF / SFF does not support Congress in Elections
Some Top Congress Members have requested for Save Indian Family Foundation (SIFF)/Save Family Foundation (SFF) support for Delhi Elections, through some of their members closely associated with SFF/SIF.
SFF/SIF members answered them:” Sorry you are too late and to stop the legal terrorism (misuse of Section 498A of IPC / DV Act / Biased Child Custody act) they have not done anything and they have to pay the price this time in Delhi Elections. Their Anti Family, anti-male LAW and Policy forced a Lot of SFF Members to stop any support to Congress Party, whereas previously they used to be supporter of Congress in their college days.”
If they want to regain their supporters’ confidence, first they have to stop the Legal Terrorism in India and the bad mouthed WCD minister to be removed from their party immediately.
As per Hindustan times dated 24/11/08:
“The congress had 47 MLAs in the last Delhi assembly and the BJP 20.While there are no opinion polls saying it yet, the word on street is that the Congress is in trouble. Many in the party privately admit winning Delhi this time looks different.”
In the last municipal Elections SFF claimed that they have ensured loss of at least 5 Seats of Congress by their campaign.
Congress Paid the Price in Delhi MCD Election for Promoting Family Killer LAWS!
Save Indian Family Foundation had announced their activity before the start of the Delhi MCD Election through the call: Women’s role in promoting gender equality wherein neither the media nor the congress governments imagined the effects and still they can’t believe the result and started to blame the sealing effect to dilute the real cause of the failure of Congress Government in Delhi MCD election.
In the coming Delhi election Save Indian Family Foundation’s Delhi Association will Contest at least 5 Seats, where the Congress candidate will be hot favorite to win and ensure their defeat, as they feel Congress Government’s Policy are always ‘anti-family”, “anti-child”, “anti-women” and they are only interested to promote “Male hater Women” in their party and safeguard the adulterous women only.
Recent example: NCW trying hard to make the adultery civil LAW instead of Criminal LAW (497) , so that the civilized society can be converted to a animal society.
It seems Congress Government and their Leaders have not taken that seriously. As a result we are witnessing today that the BJP emerges victorious in MCD polls.
So, In Delhi MCD Poll the Congress Government paid the Price for their Promotion of Male hater Minister like Ms. Renuka Choudhary, who had said earlier,” It’s turn for the men to suffer in India on the eve of passing the biased family destruction Weapon in the form of AK47 without license , the so called Domestic Violence Act, Instead of Domestic Harmony Act .
Let the congress make more and more Family Breaking LAW. Let them promote the Male hater ministers. Let them Promote the Father less society. Let them try to safeguard the Adulterous women or our Society. Yes Indian people are fool, but not stupid.
Cheers Delhi SIF and thanks for those, who had put all their effort to ensure the Kick out of Congress in Delhi MCD election, not for that BJP wins MCD Elections, it is for the Congress Who had paid the price for their anti-family, anti- child and promotion of Father less Society for our future Child.
Though we foresee very soon the same failure formula of those western countries had been implemented in India by Congress Ministers along with some male -hater women activist, just like a cut, copy and paste and we are moving towards a fatherless society at rapid speed, this is a small step from the Volunteers of Save Indian Family Foundation.
Now, it is up to the Congress TOP leaders to take a decision, are they going to Stop the Legal Terrorism in India or not? Do you know? NCRB: Over 100,000 Women Arrested Under 498A Since 2004.
More than 1, 00,000 women are arrested without trial under law Section 498a IPC by Indian Govt. in last 4 years even as thieves, molesters get bail. Are these women a bigger threat to society than thieves and molesters? (LINK) Is this what women’s empowerment by Congress Govt?
Even it took British 10 years to arrest 5000 women( 1937-47) but our Indian Government arrested more than 1,00,000 women ( 18 times ) in just 4 years ( 2004 – 2007).
The maximum women arrested even by barbaric British Government in 1930, approx 17000 women for their involvement Dandi Yatra (Salt March), which is much less than our Present Government done and our National commission of Women (NCW) and their associated are promoting the same even openly in Media/society/Parliament, which even Supreme Court of India also termed as “Legal Terrorism”!
Join the Revolution and help save your family or your beloved ones from the misuse of this deadly law!
Do you determine your beliefs or your beliefs determine you?
G’day Kids. So this study on beliefs has turned into something of an epic. Let’s look at a snapshot of what we’ve covered so far in parts one and two…
1. We’re all largely driven, motivated, limited, empowered and controlled by our beliefs; this can be both good and bad.
2. We have positive, negative and incidental beliefs.
3. Beliefs typically form over a long period of time. From the day we are born that computer on top of our shoulders is being programmed.
4. They often develop with no real effort, input or awareness on our part. We rarely make conscious decisions about them; they take root in spite of us.
5. They are the result of our influences and our experiences.
6. We know that in certain situations and circumstances (home, work, clubs, church, politics), there exists a level of pressure to align our beliefs and thinking with the majority in order to be accepted, valued and respected as part of that group.
7. Having different beliefs to the majority (in your immediate world), or changing your beliefs won’t always be well received. In fact, it will often be resisted and strongly discouraged.
8. Quite often we adopt the beliefs of others. We grow into the thinking of our parents, teachers, preachers, bosses. We don’t explore or discover our own truth, we simply make theirs.. ours.
9. I like the idea of being part of a group where identical beliefs and consensual thinking is not a pre-requisite for membership. Or acceptance. Or respect. That kind of group appeals to me.
10. We should re-examine, question and test our beliefs to determine whether they empower us or limit us.
11. Just because you’ve believed something for a long time doesn’t mean it’s right; it just means you’ve believed it for a long time!
12. We have an emotional attachment to some beliefs and the thought of letting go of them scares the crap out of us. But sometimes it’s in the letting go that we have our eyes opened.
13. In an effort to align our beliefs, thinking and behaviour with the group, we often lose US. We lose our own identity and individuality, waste our potential and live a life of frustration, compromise and under-achievement. We don’t become the best US we can, we become what is expected of us; we succumb to the enormity of conformity.
So the smart plan would be to keep the positive beliefs and lose the bad ones.
The time to consider change is when we realise that a particular belief is having some kind of negative impact on our life; our potential, our productivity, our relationships, our possibilities, our career, our family, our physical, mental and emotional health. Changing beliefs is easier said that done, keeping in mind that we are emotional beings who have been thinking, doing and believing a certain way for a very long time. The good news is that change is very possible if we’re serious about the process and we’re prepared to do the work.
So how do we change our beliefs?
1. De-emotionalise the process. The greater the level of emotional investment we have in a certain belief, the more likely we are to be irrational, defensive and even protective of that belief, no matter how much of a negative it has been in our life. The challenge comes in being brave enough to open our mind and expand our thinking to the possibility that some of our long-held beliefs may be wr..wr…wr…ong! Scary I know. Deep breaths, you’ll be okay. A good question to ask ourselves is “what do I believe?”, but the better question is “why do I believe that?” When we discover the ‘why’ then we will find it easier to change the ‘what’.
2. Do what scares you. Of course we need to wrap some logic and common sense around this piece of advice; I’m not suggesting we throw ourselves of a cliff because we’re scared of heights! But working through challenges that force us to confront and deal with our fears is one of the most effective ways to change the way we think, believe, behave and produce in our world.
Most of our limiting beliefs are about US (what we can, can’t, should, shouldn’t do, be, create, achieve), so when we confront, rather than avoid the things that scare us, we typically experience an instant shift in our thinking. When you do something that you believed wasn’t possible for you (running a marathon, holding a snake, completing some study, standing up for yourself, speaking in public), not only do you experience a shift in your thinking about that particular achievement, but you also start to question other self-imposed limitations. “Wow, if I can do that, what else can I do?” When people run their first marathon, the biggest shift is usually in their psychology not their physiology. It’s like they open a door to a world of possibilities. That potential (to do amazing) was always there but it took an experience (facing and overcoming a fear) to open that mental and emotional door which had been locked shut for far too long.
3. Hang out with different people. Hang out with negative, paranoid, miserable, fearful, excuse-making, under-achievers… and pretty soon you’ll be just like them! Who we hang out with doesn’t determine who we become but it sure does influence us. As much as possible, spend time with people who you admire, respect and trust; people who will empower you, not handicap you.
4. Expose yourself to different environments, cultures, ideas, thinking. Some of us have lived in our little boxes for so long that we think the world starts and finishes at our doorstep. Spend time talking to people you would normally avoid or people you might consider yourself to have nothing in common with. They will teach you something. Travel, explore, see different things, do different things. Occasionally expose yourself to things that are ‘not you’. Consciously and proactively set yourself to learn new things.
I recently had a conversation with someone who was being very critical of a particular religious group that exists here in Australia (and many other countries). When I asked him which parts of their theology, philosophy and doctrine he disagreed with, he looked at me blankly. The truth was he that he was criticising something that he knew nothing about. He’d never read any of their religious texts, never had a (meaningful) conversation with anyone of that faith, never been to a service and never even considered that the group he was criticising could possibly teach him anything or be a ‘viable’ (for want of a better term) religious option. After a little probing, I learned that he had simply adopted his ignorant, arrogant beliefs from his equally uneducated, opinionated and intolerant father.
5. Think for yourself. Stop trying to fit in, and start being you. Don’t be a sheep. Question the way you think, behave and believe right now. Explore where those beliefs came from and identify them as a positive or negative in your life. Don’t adopt someone else’s beliefs because you like that person, make those beliefs your own when you’ve questioned them, explored them, tested them and discovered them to be true.
6. Work hard to over-ride your default setting. Sometimes there’s a tendency for us to feel (yep, it’s an emotional thing) that our old, destructive beliefs are somehow more real than the new ones we’re trying to install into our hard-drive. Yes, it’s only a feeling but it can become a reality when we let it happen. If you’re like most people then you will have regular battles between emotional you – the one with the unhealthy emotional attachment to those old beliefs, behaviours and habits – and logical you – the one who understands what you can do and become and is prepared to do what’s necessary.
Replacing your old destructive beliefs with new empowering ones will be an on-going (life-long) process. This means being more aware and conscious of your beliefs and how they impact on you in the moment. Right now. Not in theory but in practice. Sometimes that will mean consciously over-riding an urge to conform to a pre-existing belief (way of thinking, doing, being, reacting, communicating), in order to create better results in your world. And as always, in order to create different, you need to do different.
Ciao x
Craig Harper (B.Ex.Sci.) is a qualified exercise scientist, author, columnist, radio presenter, television host, motivational speaker and university lecturer. For the past 25 years he has been a leading presenter, educator, motivator and commentator in the areas of personal and professional development. You can visit Craig’s blog at Motivational Speaker.
